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Why are girls who have sex at a younger age than most considered sluts and whores?
I was having closure talk with one of the freshmen from my health class. She told me of how I was the only person in school she could tell anything to. And proceeded to tell me how scared she was of people finding out she had sex and the possibility she’ll get a reputation as a slut. But the sex was with a boy she was with for a long time, and she felt she was ready and he wasn’t pressuring her into having sex, ultimately leaving up to her to decide when they would do it. I told her if people slut-shamed her, just to brush it off, as the people who do usually are plagued by their own insecurities about sex or their lack of knowledge. Which leads me to my question. why are people so mystified about sex? Especially youth. Our generation in constantly plagued with sexual movies and media but are not given any means to react to it maturely. We are simply told that sex could lead to terrible things like STD’s and pregnancy, enforced by abstinence-focused health books and shows like 16 and Pregnant. Teenagers are never taught WHY people have sex, except to reproduce. And by doing that, they ignore a completely relevant part to sex teenagers need to learn: How to tell one is ready for sex. Schools need to teach that people could be ready for sex at different ages, different extremes of ages, or even not feel the need to have sex ever. Health and Sex Ed classes need to teach about slut-shaming and why it is not ok and illogical to bully people for having sex. That if someone is having sex, is being safe and considerate and responsible, then there is nothing wrong with having sex. I hear people spreading rumors about girls being sluts and whores and it infuriates me! What right do people have to judge others based primarily on the person’s “supposed” sex life, or single aspect of that person for that matter? If someone wants to stay abstinent, that’s their choice, but to shame someone else for having sex is like you yelling at someone for eating a slice of cake because you are on a diet. It makes no sense and you hurt a person for no reason at all. Having sex does not automatically equal sluttiness. People get mad at me because I talk honestly about sex. But I only do that because NO ONe ELSE TALKS ABOUT IT AT ALL! Even if its just from their fellow classmates, teens need to learn about safe sex and consent and slut-shaming. No more should the topic of sex amongst teens about class whores or how one will”bang” someone else, but a communication of shared experiences so that they can learn from honest anecdotes instead of cold fictional stories from an out-of-date textbook.
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Deo Angelo, 17. Loves to sing and write. Gay. J'aime manger et lire. Resident of Daly City, the land of fog. High School Senior in denial. Come talk to me. I'll make it worth your while. ;) :)My personal thoughts land here:
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